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Liverpolitan
12-01-2008, 10:36 PM
I ask because the structure of this site seems to be extremely tidy! Everything has a place, a place for everything. I know people who would love it even if they knew nothing about Liverpool, simply because it is so structured.

At work, before we had a real clear desk policy, some people were always tidy without being told to be. They had neat orderly files, and I know one person who prided himself on actually maintaining a clear desk during the day. It helped that he wasn't very busy. Others had that "I know where everything is" form of messiness, with huge piles of papers and files but somehow, only they knew how, they would be able to retrieve something as quickly as someone who had neat files.

Peoples pc desktops are also revealing. Some people have the minimum possible clutter, whereas other people seem to just throw things randomly onto the desk top where they can find it easily, and sweep things into huge messy files once the desk top is full.

Personally I'm untidy. My work desk was one of the ones with big piles of paper, sometimes mini-avalanches, and sadly unlike some I didn't have the gift for still knowing where everything was - it was sometimes a bit random. And my desktop just fills up until it won't accept any more icons, then I have a clear-up. I use a large screen, partly because it accepts so many icons.
I am just one of those people who has to be able to see things in order to know where they are. It's no use to me knowing its in a file, or a folder within a file within a drawer. I need it on my desk, or on my desktop. My files are clear plastic, so I can see what is in them. I have furniture with glass draws and cupboards as otherwise I'll never open them and whatever is in them might as well be buried.

With public filing systems, it's tricky - order is required if everyone is to use them, and without some order you get endless duplication and frustration trying to find things. That is a real strenght of yo! and its rather robust filing structure.

I'm one of this sites biggest fans even though I've not been a member that long or posted a lot - I've read it and enjoyed it and appreciated it from its fairly early days. I know it's had its ups and downs, and I've never appreciated the ins and outs of those things but have just been pleased to see it bounce back stronger from the challenges that have been faced. So I only write as a semi-lurking fan, not as a critic or as a regular user or contributor.

My feeling though, and it is a though, is that the structure of the site currently means I am missing a lot. It's like Russian Dolls, you have to really want to open one up to find the next, and the next. If you are in a rush, or don't know what is inside, you don't open it. I dash between the sites I monitor regularly, sometimes I try to check on half a dozen sites in just ten minutes or so, and I have to say that if you treat yo! in that way, you miss nearly all of it.

Maybe it's the web equivalent of "slow" cities, slow food, that whole movement to try to stop the madness of doing everything so fast. It enslaves us all, so it's nice to see a website that demands you give it a bit of time. And to know what is being posted on yo! you have to spend quite a bit of time. Over time, I suspect the site will attract a really skewed sample of the general population, who have bare desk tops and really tidy living rooms. People who file their bank statements in date order in a file and archive them once a year. People who have a little card index next to their computer with their passwords instead of scrabbling around looking for bits of paper and envelopes scattered on the floor under the kitchen table.

Being messy is not of itself a bad thing, if it was nature would have eradicated us by now. So I don't feel the need to be apologetic. I don't think it's morally bad or inefficient particularly. After all, randomness, accident and exploration drive evolution as much as steady learning and trialling of what what works. Perhaps one reason humans are so successful is that some of us are doggedly methodical and patient, and others are incapable of method or patience and just make things up afresh if we can't find something we've made before.

Anyway, I am posting because I couldn't find a way of contacting Kev (sorry if it's obvious but I couldnt work it out) and also I wondered how others feel. Would you be more likely to visit and read and post if there were less categories and themes and sub-categories and sub-topics etc? Less boxes to open? Or are you someone who likes being able to find things logically and can easily remember where things are kept?

As I say, I am a fan of yo! and whilst I am not technically a lurker my time on here is in no way reflected by my palty post count. So I hope this posting, which is from a rather selfish lurker perspective, is okay.

drone_pilot
12-04-2008, 01:13 PM
Me defiantly untidy, my desk top is all ways chaotic. i used to work for a letting agent (Ronny) and he had a great filing system, he just threw every thing on his desk, and anything that fell off was re filed by throwing it back on top.

A.D.W
12-04-2008, 09:12 PM
Personally I'm untidy. My work desk was one of the ones with big piles of paper, sometimes mini-avalanches, and sadly unlike some I didn't have the gift for still knowing where everything was - it was sometimes a bit random. And my desktop just fills up until it won't accept any more icons, then I have a clear-up. I use a large screen, partly because it accepts so many icons.

I had you down as a tidy person, Poli, and to find you are an untidy person is disappointing.

:)

Ged
12-07-2008, 01:14 AM
I am a tidy person, possibly overtidy, maybe manically overtidy, obsessionally even.

sweetcheeks
01-28-2009, 10:04 PM
I always wanted to be a tidy person, but it has never happened so far :disgust::disgust: I have moments of tidiness but it doesnt last very long.

Paddy
01-30-2009, 04:25 PM
Ultra neat people freak me out. I am absent minded and I forget where I put things most of my time is spent looking for stuff. If people steal from me I put it down to being mislaid. I have lost Money, Watches, Glasses and most things not physically attached to me. However put me in charge of something and I will guard it with my life. :002:

knowhowe
11-16-2009, 01:47 AM
I do try my best to be tidy and organised but my efforts are constantly defeated by this household's womenfolk. God knows, I love 'em to death but they drive me nuts sometimes.
One of the downsides of working from home is that I get lumbered with the bulk of the housework too (wife a teacher and girls out at school and college)- which I don't mind but finding the same crap scattered around the place I'd spent valuable time putting away only a short time previously does my head in.
Shoes especially. Why do they have to have so many? Why do they choose to dump them just where you want to walk so you fall over the buggers every time?
I always try to adhere to the old Zen teaching thing of "when you've eaten your rice, wash your bowl". If I've had a coffee, I give the mug a quick rinse and it's ready waiting for the next time. Muckier stuff goes straight in the dishwasher. When it's full, I turn it on... simple. Contrast this efficiency with the dreaded daily expedition into kid's bedrooms to return laden down with yucky mugs, glasses, bowls...
In the master (ha!) bedroom, compare my small selection of just the clothes I need that day with the good lady's ghastly piles spread over every available surface. The same applies to the daughter's squalid dens.
To them, of course, this is all quite natural and normal. By now I know better than to bang on about it too much as all I get in return is that look and a polite request to "cool it daddy-o". Perhaps it's me.

wsteve55
11-21-2009, 01:32 AM
Ha,Ha, I'm a bit of an "order" freak, but I'm learning!:202 (1):

pablo42
11-21-2009, 01:23 PM
I'm very tidy with important stuff. Not so with unimportant stuff. Me cans of beers are lined up like Guardsmen. All facing the same way, one inch from the edge of the fridge shelf. Shiny and clean, wrapped in it's very own cover.
The rest of the house is a tip. I have no clean clothes and can't see me bed. Dishes aint been washed for weeks. Dog has it's own can opener, she will learn how to open cans when she gets hungry enough.
Like I say, very tidy with the important stuff.

ItsaZappathing
11-21-2009, 04:01 PM
Am a clean freak:PDT11

Spike
11-21-2009, 04:44 PM
I can not say myseld.

But my wife says im a scruffy so and so :104:

lindylou
11-21-2009, 10:50 PM
I'm a tidy person. Can't stand disorder. All the cupboards and drawers are tidy and in order - everything in the right places and compartments (and dust free ) :) I regularly blitz the wardrobes and have sort outs - don't hoard anything uneccessary. All my photographs are dated in albums - and computer stuff logged in files and on disc. I even have my music collection A to Z.
The worst thing is the constant tidying up after teenage son !! a futile activity.
I'm a bit of a cleaning freak and anything that stands still gets scrubbed and polished :PDT_Piratz_26:

wsteve55
12-01-2009, 01:53 AM
I'm a tidy person. Can't stand disorder. All the cupboards and drawers are tidy and in order - everything in the right places and compartments (and dust free ) :) I regularly blitz the wardrobes and have sort outs - don't hoard anything uneccessary. All my photographs are dated in albums - and computer stuff logged in files and on disc. I even have my music collection A to Z.
The worst thing is the constant tidying up after teenage son !! a futile activity.
I'm a bit of a cleaning freak and anything that stands still gets scrubbed and polished :PDT_Piratz_26:

Is that why your lad won't sit, and watch, the tele!?!:unibrow:

dazza
12-01-2009, 04:47 PM
Recovering Untidy person. I'm about a 1000 nautical miles away from being Ship-shape. But I paddle on regardless.

That's about as tidy, as I can make it?